Irritated
July 15th, 2007 • Related • Filed Under
So many little problems even when being single, I guess nothing is ever perfect in life. Too many people, too many problems, too many annoyances, ugh… How do I break free, how do I feel free? I still feel locked up, I feel like I am being used from everyone. Things are just getting to comfortable for everyone cause I make that way I guess, but if I even say “I am not paying this time,” I’ll look like an asshole to all my friends, is that ok? Ugh, where do I go.
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ANDREW! Amazing! I hope you're new PROJECTS DO GREAT!
I also hope you stay motivated. It's nice to have you BACK! 
I will definitely be posting more soon on my new photo blog :D 
I agree with Dewayne,
Would love to see more, thanks for taking the time, very informative. 
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Comment by eric benjamin on 15 July 2007:
just call not paying… or nose goes!
i cover ya when you forget your wallet (48% of the time) lol
what good is your money if you aren’t enjoying it… you don’t want to eat out by yourself you know? most .. or some of your friends cant always afford to eat out and enjoy doing what you do all day every day (having fun), so you helping them out, just means you get to have fun in the company of your friends. Which is better than trying to have fun all by yourself. follow?
Comment by RN79 on 15 July 2007:
I know the feeling bro… At some point you just have to hold your ground… no matter how it makes you look..
Comment by Jon Waraas on 15 July 2007:
dude wtf, you pay for your buddies???
Rule #1, only pay for bitches
make your buddies pay for themselves, you wont look like an asshole. that is actually how everyone does it..
Comment by Trek on 15 July 2007:
Cover your fam and friends but enjoy it as you do it… now I realize… fuck all my friends don’t got money and they cant smoke and club and keep up wit me.. so I just spend some on them, keep up fucked up u know????
Karma mang…
The only alternative is chill with ballers and not scrubs, but then you look like a sell out
Comment by Danny on 16 July 2007:
lol well ur short u have a napolean complex so get use to it thats why u hav da ambition if u didnt pay for da people who would hang wit u !! lol
Comment by Don Wilson on 16 July 2007:
Jon’s right on this case, my friend!
Comment by Joe Jackson on 26 July 2007:
Man, I lost a lot of friends paying for them, and a lot of friends who paid for me. It’s always one way or the other, either you’re using them, or they’re using you. I know that feeling exactly… So what do you do? Cut it off before it begins.
Just tell your friends BEFORE you all go out to eat “Damn man, I’m hungry, but my budget will be so screwed up if I get something to eat. I’ll just get a little hamburger or whatever” and call it a day.
Really set a budget, and let your friends know. One of two things are going to happen, they will understand and actually BE your friends, or two, you’ll spend your time finding new real friends. Because you know what will suck the most? Being 25 years old and looking back at when you were on top of the world, and spent $50+ a day on you and all your friends for food, and now all you have to prove it is a BMW that you can barely afford insurance payments, or a group of uploaded photos of your once-was-success.
Comment by Lex on 15 August 2007:
What you need to do is get a sidekick to smack you everytime you feel the generosity urge. You’re not an ATM for your friends. They can pay for there own shit. If they’re really your friends, they’ll understand.
Comment by Mike Dunlap on 7 September 2007:
Whats up Andrew.. I donno if you remember me at all but I went to school with you and Michael….Man Its sad to hear about all this shit…I first herd about your huge strides in life, and it made me fill all sorts of differnt ways.. I was happy and jealous at the same time.. I was thinking about all the fake ass people you would be meeting, being used for things.. Never really meeting anyone real.. So then I was looking on Cars.com for a new BMW and saw your 335 for sale and then craigs list all your shit for sale, Come to find out your dippin out to So Cal. Due to the fact all your “friends” tweeked.. I found out that money isnt everything.. But im makeing some good money for my age right know around 60,000 a year.. And all of my friends dont make close to that.. So I payed for alot of shit all the beer and shit… But they still put in what they could.. Sometimes you gadda fork out the cash because hey we got the money to do it.. But Ill only do it with the friends I knew befor I stared makin cash.. Money is a evil thing and will change alot of people.. My advise for you man is keep your old ture friends close and start a new life out in the West coast.. Good luck in life hope all works out and remember if you do right, good will come back to you.. Karma!!